donderdag 30 december 2010
I was walking around in a Target store, when I saw a cashier hand this little boy some money back. The boy couldn’t have been more than 5 or 6 years old. The cashier said, “I’m sorry, but you don’t have enough money to buy this doll.” Then the little boy turned to the old woman next to him: ”Granny, are you sure I don’t have enough money?” The old lady replied: ”You know that you don’t have enough money to buy this doll, my dear.” Then she asked him to stay there for just 5 minutes while she went to look a round. She left quickly. The little boy was still holding the doll in his hand. Finally, I walked toward him and I asked him who he wished to give this doll to. “It’s the doll that my sister loved most and wanted so much for Christmas. She was sure that Santa Claus would bring it to her.” I replied to him that maybe Santa Claus would bring it to her afterall, and not to worry. But he replied to me sadly. “No, Santa Claus can’t bring it to her where she is now. I have to give the doll to my mommy so that she can give it to my sister when she goes there.” His eyes were so sad while saying this. “My sister has gone to be with God. Daddy says that Mommy is going to see God very soon too, so I thought that she could take the doll with her to give it to my sister.” My heart nearly stopped. The little boy looked up at me and said: “I told daddy to tell mommy not to go yet. I need her to wait until I come back from the mall.” Then he showed me a very nice photo of him where he was laughing. He then told me “I want mommy to take my picture with her so she won’t forget me. I love my mommy and I wish she doesn’t have to leave me, but daddy says that she has to go to be with my little sister.” Then he looked again at the doll with sad eyes, very quietly. I quickly reached for my wallet and said to the boy. “Suppose we check again, just in case you do have enough money for the doll?” “OK,” he said, “I hope I do have enough.” I added some of my money to his without him seeing and we started to count it. There was enough for the doll and even some spare money. The little boy said: “Thank you God for giving me enough money!” Then he looked at me and added, “I asked last night before I went to sleep for God to make sure I had enough money to buy this doll, so that mommy could give it to my sister. He heard me!” “I also wanted to have enough money to buy a white rose for my mommy, but I didn’t dare to ask God for too much. But He gave me enough to buy the doll and a white rose.” “My mommy loves white roses.” A few minutes later, the old lady returned and I left with my basket. I finished my shopping in a totally different state from when I started. I couldn’t get the little boy out of my mind. Then I remembered a local newspaper article two days ago, which mentioned a drunk man in a truck, who hit a car occupied by a young woman and a little girl. The little girl died right away, and the mother was left in a critical state. The family had to decide whether to pull the plug on the life-sustaining machine, because the young woman would not be able to recover from the coma. Was this the family of the little boy? Two days after this encounter with the little boy, I read in the newspaper that the young woman had passed away. I couldn’t stop myself as I bought a bunch of white roses and I went to the funeral home where the body of the young woman was exposed for people to see and make last wishes before her burial. She was there, in her coffin, holding a beautiful white rose in her hand with the photo of the little boy and the doll placed over her chest. I left the place, teary-eyed, feeling that my life had been changed forever.. The love that the little boy had for his mother and his sister is still, to this day, hard to imagine. And in a fraction of a second, a drunk driver had taken all this away from him..
Hold my hand
Baby I promise that I'll do
All I can
Things will get better if you just hold my hand
Nothing can come between us if you just hold,
hold my, hold, hold my, hooold, hold my hand.
All our fights and lies made us stronger. Thats where you can tell if its real love. no matter what happens, you make it through together. Each person has insecurities and character flaws that they have to get past, and it’s a decision to grow together and reach a place of understanding and acceptance or grow apart and go separate ways. It’s a test of how strong your love is for that person. You either give up or hold on for dear life.
woensdag 29 december 2010
fter her highly publicized relationship with R&B singer Chris Brown ended in abuse, Rihanna has ended her current relationship on a more peaceful note. 22-year-old Rihanna has been dating Los Angeles Dodgers center fielder Matt Kemp, who is 26.
Rihanna and Kemp began dating in January. However, their relationship wasn’t as high publicized as her previous relationships. Why? The couple was rarely seen together. In fact, that was just the reason they decided to call it quits, as the long-distance nature of their relationship became too much. With his baseball career, Kemp travels during the season, but is based in Los Angeles. To support her new album “Loud,” Rihanna has been traveling for most of the year.
An insider told US Magazine that Kemp was tired of following Rihanna around the globe. Apparently, Kemp wants something more normal than what she can offer. The insider also said their relationship was more about having fun than anything, despite recent engagement rumors surrounding the pair.
Rihanna had previously told Elle magazine that her relationship with Kemp is what maintains her sanity. She was happy for how the relationship made her after calling it quits with Brown. Despite the break-up, she’ll be ok, as Kanye West pointed out, due to her sex appeal, she could have any male or female she wants.